It's so hard to quantify how and why I loved Ben so much. He was one of the loveliest and kindest people I have ever met and I am so, so sad that he has left us. I hope he's happy up there with Mr and Mrs Huyton, Little Grandad and Little Grandma, our Big G and G (Hurley) and of course, our loved and missed, little Rebecca Jane Hurley. She's not so little, she'd be 52 now. I really hope Ben is up there having a good session about how we could all do things better while having a family arm around him when deciding what we are all doing wrong!

Thank you for setting up this memorial to Ben. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.

I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.